Focus On What You Can Control

There's only one way of not burning out your energy completely – or that of others: it's to give without asking or waiting for anything in return. Draw the line when you need to be balanced, then give again. There isn't another feasible way.

When Nature, along with nurture, in our society, in our cultures, concentrates on giving to receive, you rely on other people's confidence. It doesn't always work with this formula. You can't always work based on the other person's confidence because you'll eventually be uncalibrated by them. They could be, perhaps, not aware, not ready, too busy, too scattered, in the dark, or unsure.

You're here to change this, and we are all here to change this if we want to.

If we don't want to or are not ready to, it's fine too. We all have different speeds at which we learn and apply information, and it isn't right or wrong. All of us have to be patient with ourselves and with others. All situations aren't all solvable at the time we would like them to be.

Have a calm and revolutionary day, both within you – for if you're ready to change but need others to get on board. You can also concentrate on and revolutionize what you can control. Give as much as you can and want but remember there's only so much you can control. Otherwise, you won't live life. There are disappointments, and there are joys; live both, and go live your life.

Au revoir/arrivederci/bye for now/ate logo/hasta la vista,

Girlene